Masturbation Monday | A Birthday Treat

It’s not often, but occasionally I get to watch. Most of the time when we fuck both of our hands roam, or he touches me, or I touch myself, so watching him take his cock in hand is a rare treat. Then again, you’re supposed to get treats on your birthday.

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Breaking Down BDSM, Part 1

Let’s clear something up, BDSM and fetish aren’t as scary as some people think. The media loves to sensationalise everything nowadays, and unfortunately BDSM isn’t exempt from that. 

I’m going to break down BDSM, and simplify it so you can see that it’s pretty straightforward. For context, I have been practicing BDSM for quite some time – nearly 7 years now, and I also used to practice it professionally. I identify as a dominate sadistic female, and very occasionally switch with my partner in permits of hedonistic pleasures. 

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Elust 112 | Sex Bloggers are Awesome

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #113? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

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Friday Flash – Letters to My Slut

Another day, another email.

“My dearest slut,

Today you will wear your medium metal plug as you go about your daily activities. You may only remove it once to reapply lube it, so make sure prepare well. You will also wear your silicone chastity cage. Leave they key at home. 

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Turning 25 & The UK Blog Awards 2019!

Turning 25 & The UK Blog Awards 2019! Holy smokes, it’s official! I’m now 25, and ready fo my quarter life crisis. I jest, hopefully. I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone that reads this blog. The traffic on has more than doubled from last year, and I can’t say thank you enough for reading my musings. It’s been such a tough year, and I know I’m not the most consistent poster (thought I’m going for a post a day at the moment), but posting has become a much needed outlet, and reminder that I’m not such…

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Rocks Off Atomic Streamlined Elegance Vibrator [Sex Toy Review]

The Rocks Off Atomic Streamlined Elegance Vibrator is a new design of sex toy.. I love the colouring, and the fade from silver to blue (but that’s no surprise). Rocks Off have really hit it out of the park with the colours for some of their vibrators.

But, how does it fare in use?

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Kink of the Week: Female Domination

Within the realm of BDSM, I prefer to take on the dominant role both professionally, and personally. I love the power that comes from being the one in control. In my personal life out of the bedroom, I also prefer to be in control as much as possible as a lot of my life is out of my control.

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Sunday Shopping | Flash Erotica #2

I gave her 5 minutes. 5 minutes to pick out a toy she liked, any toy, but she had to pick one that I’d be happy with. She knew the consequences of picking poorly.

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Rocks Off Joycicles Shimmer Vibrator [Sex Toy Review]

The Rocks Off Joycicles Shimmer Vibrator is so pretty, part of me wants to turn it into a decoration to hang on the Christmas tree this year.

Picture: Rocks Off
To be honest, I thought this toy arrived broken. This is why I’m only just getting round to review it now, I tried to get it to work for some time, then gave up. When rounding up all my toys I fiddled around a bit more, and voila, a working vibrator! For once, I fixed something instead of breaking it, it’s a near Christmas miracle.

(Before anyone mentions it, it wasn’t because there was a piece of cardboard on top of the battery.)

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Figuring out oral sex.  

Up until last year, I was not a fan of receiving oral sex. I was (and still am) a huge fan of giving oral sex, but not receiving it. Why? People either had a habit of making me feel bad for the look of my vulva (unsurprisingly, that was Douche), or they were just really really bad at it, and I came away with bruises – noses are dangerous weapons! There’s also the fact that I can get uncomfortable really quickly during oral due to one body part or another playing up. Basically, oral sex was always way more stressful than relaxing. 

However, this year, I’ve gained a new appreciation for oral sex, in part due to necessity. There were been many times where the combination of vibrations, and some penis in vagina action were not enough for my clit, but there was only so much we could do. My body was limited to certain actins, particularly post hospital as I had no strength, or stamina. I was determined to figure out how oral sex works best for me, and this time I wasn’t just settling for what was happening. I was bossy, slightly demanding, and for once I gave myself permission to let go.

Figuring out oral sex will be different for everyone, but here’s how I finally figured it out for me!

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