Contrary to the commercial advertising shoved down the throats of money, Valentine’s Day isn’t about giving your partner or partners expensive gifts in an attempt to prove just how much you love them. It’s about showing them you care. First things first, make sure you know what your partner(s) likes. Don’t purchase a new toy (or even a variation of a similar toy with different sensations), book, food or fragrance without running it past them first. You don’t have to ask them outright, but feel it out, and ask relevant questions. Failing that, pick the item together – choice is sexy! Second,…