How I learnt to diversify my income from sex work, the hard way. I work for multiple sites with multiple payout dates, they’re also American sites. This means my bank takes even longer to send me the money, in any given month I don’t know when I’m getting paid – or even how much due to the exchange rates. When I first started working I worked for one site, a year later I started working for another, and then every few months I added another site. I first sold cam show – predominantly nonsexual live interaction with me for tips, then…

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Tantus Goddess Handle  It was a surprise to receive the Tantus Goddess Handle in the post, because I had no indication I would receive a toy to review. Nevertheless, one sunny weekend a few weeks ago a very large package came into my life, and no it wasn’t the Gent coming home from work, that would be an extra large package.  What struck me upon opening the package, after It’s opened the Gent’s, was the sheer amount of waste. Whereas some parcels I receive are packed full to the brim, there was such an excess of space in the box.…

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Toy Review | Hot Octopuss ATOM PLUS Cock Ring  We huffed, and we puffed, and we pulled some hairs out.  Let’s dive right in. Guys, you do not know how many times I’ve had to apologise to the Gent about this toy. I’ve lost count, I’ve even apologised to his cock. It’s that serious. I love his cock, and I don’t want any harm to come to it, but I also like reviewing sex toys. I’ve been put into a bit of a predicament over the Hot Octopuss ATOM PLUS Cock Ring. First off, let me tell you that I…

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The impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill. SESTA, FOSTA, The DE Bill have decimated my love for my job, and I hate it. Just like I regained my sexuality with Eroticon, working this past month, and listening to podcasts have reignited my love for my job. I love sex work, but people don’t love sex workers. I’m working on a post about the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill as a whole, but for now, as requested from a lovely Patreon, this is how the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill has impacted me. I’m…

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#SoSS May Roundup If you don’t know what #SoSS is, is a way for sex bloggers to circumvent Twitter’s shadow banning of our content. Each Saturday (*coughs* or one Saturday a month) sex bloggers share posts that they like in a way to spread the love. Make sure you check out the hashtag! I love the idea of #SoSS, but I know there’s no way I can read, put out, and write at least one post a week. My work around is that I’m going to break it down and do one SoSS a month. This month I’m focusing on…

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