Being a Professional Dominatrix with a Disability

I am an pretty darn good Dominatrix.  It doesn’t matter whether I’m playing for fun with play partners, paid professional work in a real time scenario, or online sessions with clients – I’m good. I also happen to be disabled. Now, this doesn’t detract from my abilities, my kink, nor the way I conduct my sessions –Read more

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My Battle with Contraception … aka I’ve taken 5 pregnancy test this week.

And that’s not click bate! As of July 2017 the only contraception method I rely on are condoms. Three years ago I never would have imagined I’d be saying that sentence – I was the ‘having back ups of the back ups’ type of person. But, things change. The reasons are varied, and not allRead more

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14 Practical Blow Job & Jaw Pain Tips

Let’s talk about blow jobs! Note: I can only speak from personal experience, and the tips and tricks below are things I’ve learnt over the years giving head to dildos, penises and the like. This post is also phallus orientated, occasionally penis orientated, and sometimes orgasms in relation to penises orientated. I love blow jobs.Read more

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Resources on The Digital Economy Bill

The Digital Economy Bill (aka … let’s ban all the porn!) A few weeks ago I started writing a post on the Digital Economy Bill, and my take on what the implications the bill would have. A few weeks later, the bill has changed, I’ve been ill, and my brain refuses to co-operate with me. So,Read more

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5 Ways to Feel Attractive During a Symptom Flare

Aka, “I’m experimenting with ways to make myself feel moderately human again.” I feel rotten. I don’t feel attractive, and I definitely don’t feel sexy. Last night, I told that to the Gent. He’s a good egg. He reassured me I’m still attractive, and had my hips been willing he would have definitely had sex with me. But, my brainRead more