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I lost my sexuality for a year. A love letter to Eroticon. 

I lost my sexuality for a year. A love letter to Eroticon. I’ve just spent a year living through hell. I wish that was an exaggeration. 12 months of insidious pain, climaxing in a 12 day hospital stay, and a bunch more daily meds with powerful side effects. I’m not cured – there’s  a chanceRead more

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My Battle with Contraception … aka I’ve taken 5 pregnancy test this week.

And that’s not click bate! As of July 2017 the only contraception method I rely on are condoms. Three years ago I never would have imagined I’d be saying that sentence – I was the ‘having back ups of the back ups’ type of person. But, things change. The reasons are varied, and not allRead more

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Ten things I took away from Eroticon 2017

Eroticon 2017 It’s been just over a week since I travelled to London so I could attend both Eroticon, and a screening from UKAP. A week of bumbling around trying to not talk about sex with everyone I meet. And, also a week of recovery – Eroticon drop hit me hard. When my body figured out it wasRead more

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Let’s Talk Sex and Disability

What I want to do, and what my disability allows me to do are two very different things. Let’s talk sex and disability. When you put me down on paper there’s a million and one things I physically can’t do – my body just doesn’t function like the stereotypical ‘normal’. Like I mentioned in my last post, it’sRead more

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My Sex Work Story

How I got into sex work. And why. This post I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work, but first, a little intro. To make a long story short I’m disabled. I have, and have had undiagnosed widespread chronic pain, plus a wide assortment of weird medical maladies for 10 going on 11 years now. Being aRead more