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Ten things I took away from Eroticon 2017

Eroticon 2017 It’s been just over a week since I travelled to London so I could attend both Eroticon, and a screening from UKAP. A week of bumbling around trying to not talk about sex with everyone I meet. And, also a week of recovery – Eroticon drop hit me hard. When my body figured out it wasRead more

Christian Grey, and Anastasia in formal clothes from Fifty Shades Darker.

Review: Fifty Shades Darker

Fifty Shades Darker Film Review Many years ago, when I was an eager young kinkster, I read the Fifty Shades trilogy. The first left me disappointed, the second despondent, and the third in despair. Was this really how people saw kinksters? Broken humans, with nothing to offer in the way of affection? A little explorationRead more

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8 Low Impact and Low Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas

Contrary to the commercial advertising shoved down the throats of money, Valentine’s Day isn’t about giving your partner or partners expensive gifts in an attempt to prove just how much you love them. It’s about showing them you care. First things first, make sure you know what your partner(s) likes. Don’t purchase a new toyRead more

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Let’s Talk Sex and Disability

What I want to do, and what my disability allows me to do are two very different things. Let’s talk sex and disability. When you put me down on paper there’s a million and one things I physically can’t do – my body just doesn’t function like the stereotypical ‘normal’. Like I mentioned in my last post, it’sRead more

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My Sex Work Story

How I got into sex work. And why. This post I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work, but first, a little intro. To make a long story short I’m disabled. I have, and have had undiagnosed widespread chronic pain, plus a wide assortment of weird medical maladies for 10 going on 11 years now. Being aRead more