How I got into sex work, and why. This post I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work, but first, a little intro. To make a long story short I’m disabled. I have, and have had undiagnosed widespread chronic pain, plus a wide assortment of weird medical maladies for 10 going on 11 years now. Being a medical mystery/pain in the docs butt, is a huge part of my life, and it effects me daily. Not a day goes by where I’m free of pain or annoying symptoms, and if I try to do too much too fast then that day gets a…

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“Good for Disabled People” This gets a whole section, and a soapbox. This section was originally within my review of the Rocks Off Ruby Glow toy, however as soon as it reached 800 words I knew I had to split it all up. 2,000 words is far too much to easily read in one sitting.  So, I know the Ruby Glow wasn’t designed with disabled people in mind, but you don’t get to claim the title after the fact if you’ve not spoken to disabled people about how they use it, and if they can actually use it.  Good Housekeeping…

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How therapy impacts my sex life. At the moment I’m going through a lot, though I feel a lot is a bit of an understatement. I’ve restarted therapy, proper therapy. The therapy sessions you finish with a relieved sign, and then promptly go home to clean yourself afterwards. The therapy sessions that make you feel like an hour in the gym would be preferable, and the therapy sessions that wring you out the opposite way to dry. Some of you know what I’m talking about, fo those that don’t I suggest you try it. That’s only somewhat sarcastic, therapy is…

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The impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill. SESTA, FOSTA, The DE Bill have decimated my love for my job, and I hate it. Just like I regained my sexuality with Eroticon, working this past month, and listening to podcasts have reignited my love for my job. I love sex work, but people don’t love sex workers. I’m working on a post about the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill as a whole, but for now, as requested from a lovely Patreon, this is how the impact of SESTA, FOSTA, and The DE Bill has impacted me. I’m…

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April Favourites | Toys, Videos, and Fetishes  April favourites, wow. Yet another month has gone by, and I don’t know where it’s gone. I swear it was only just New Year’s Eve, are now entering into ‘Summer’. Of course, it’s British summer so there will be lots of rain, mud, and the old heatwave that everybody complains about. That is until it’s raining again, and then we start complaining about that. It’s the British way. I don’t have too many favourites this month. I think I’ve done too much work to gather more than a few favourites, but the few…

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