How to be a Good Consumer of Porn An etiquette guide to buying, watching, and paying for porn.  Read key information first.  Do the model I favour, don’t ask a zillion and one questions. It not only takes up a lot of our time, but it really annoys us. Most of use spend time on graphics, webpages, maybe even an FAQ, so your questions are answered. Deciding your too good to read this means we’re probably not going reply to you, or we will just direct you to wear your question is answered. Bottom line, check first. If the information isn’t on…

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My Sex Work Story: How I Got into Sex Work, and Why Transcript Today I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work. Controversial topic, especially considering the current climate with SESTA, FOSTA, and the digital economy bill. But I think that’s why I need to talk about sex work and how I got into it, because people don’t understand sex work. There’s a lot of fear mongering going around and sure, there is a reason for it. There is a reason people are worried, but sex work isn’t sex trafficking and that’s a distinction I want you to…

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How do you make sex toys accessible?  9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking. I’ve had a number of conversations about how to make sex toys accessible with various people, from bloggers, to industry folks, and to the Gent. The short story, there’s no one way to make every single sex toy on the market accessible, the long story … well read on. Accessibility in sex toys is a topic close to my heart. I love sex toys. I have so many of them that each year my sex toy storage has to increase, but…

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Don’t Panic! Tips and Tricks from a disabled Dominatrix I Clients, or at least dealing with clients can be tricky. I don’t session at all these days – it takes it too much out of me. Though, I never used to session to much way back when – I think I average 4 sessions a month on a good month. Why? My time, and energy is precious so I treat it as such, after 12 yers of chronic illness I’ve finally learnt that fact. When I did session I developed a certain way of sessioning – a code of body…

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Sex Worker Clutter It’s really easy to collect items as an adult entertainer. Really easy. Over the years I’ve had the have multiple clear outs – sometimes as often as every season, because my boxes of tricks get too big, and full of clutter. So, here’s what I’ve been doing: Step 1 I ask myself three questions in regards to the item: When did I buy it? When was the last time I used it (if ever)? Does it really have a purpose? And a few extra questions for stockings – do they have ladders in them/can I find the…

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