How I got into sex work, and why.

Video Transcript | My Sex Work Story: How I Got into Sex Work, and Why

My Sex Work Story: How I Got into Sex Work, and Why Transcript Today I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work. Controversial topic, especially considering the current climate with SESTA, FOSTA, and the digital economy bill. But I think that’s why I need to talk about sex work and how I gotRead more

Advice | How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking.

How do you make sex toys accessible?  9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking. I’ve had a number of conversations about how to make sex toys accessible with various people, from bloggers, to industry folks, and to the Gent. The short story, there’s no one way to make every singleRead more

Advice | Tips and Tricks from a disabled Dominatrix I

Don’t Panic! Tips and Tricks from a disabled Dominatrix I Clients, or at least dealing with clients can be tricky. I don’t session at all these days – it takes it too much out of me. Though, I never used to session to much way back when – I think I average 4 sessions aRead more

Advice | How to deal with the sex work clutter.

Sex Worker Clutter It’s really easy to collect items as an adult entertainer. Really easy. Over the years I’ve had the have multiple clear outs – sometimes as often as every season, because my boxes of tricks get too big, and full of clutter. So, here’s what I’ve been doing: Step 1 I ask myselfRead more

Advice | How to find kink friendly therapists. 

How to find kink friendly therapists. Therapy is hard, there’s no ifs and or buts about it. Therapy is one of the most mentally challenging things I’ve ever done. It’s even harder if you want to visit a therapist and talk about BDSM, fetishes or the like. Many therapists aren’t opened minded enough to talkRead more

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Advice | 14 Practical Blow Job & Jaw Pain Tips

Let’s talk about blow jobs! Note: I can only speak from personal experience, and the tips and tricks below are things I’ve learnt over the years giving head to dildos, penises and the like. This post is also phallus orientated, occasionally penis orientated, and sometimes orgasms in relation to penises orientated. I love blow jobs.Read more

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Advice | 5 Ways to Feel Attractive During a Symptom Flare

Aka, “I’m experimenting with ways to make myself feel moderately human again.” I feel rotten. I don’t feel attractive, and I definitely don’t feel sexy. Last night, I told that to the Gent. He’s a good egg. He reassured me I’m still attractive, and had my hips been willing he would have definitely had sex with me. But, my brainRead more