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Advice | 8 Low Impact and Low Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas

Contrary to the commercial advertising shoved down the throats of money, Valentine’s Day isn’t about giving your partner or partners expensive gifts in an attempt to prove just how much you love them. It’s about showing them you care. First things first, make sure you know what your partner(s) likes. Don’t purchase a new toyRead more

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Advice | Let’s Talk Sex and Disability

Let’s Talk Sex and Disability What I want to do, and what my disability allows me to do are two very different things. Let’s talk sex and disability. When you put me down on paper there’s a million and one things I physically can’t do – my body just doesn’t function like the stereotypical ‘normal’. Like I mentionedRead more

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Article | My FetLife Inbox, Part 1

My FetLife Inbox, Part 1 FetLife, the Facebook of kinksters. Over the years I’ve received a number of eloquent, well structured, and positively delightful messages from members of FetLife. (Note: that last sentence was full of sarcasm.) I’ve even taken to reading them out online when I stream, set to the tune of Aria Da Capo. However, sometimesRead more

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Article | My Sex Work Story

How I got into sex work, and why. This post I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work, but first, a little intro. To make a long story short I’m disabled. I have, and have had undiagnosed widespread chronic pain, plus a wide assortment of weird medical maladies for 10 going on 11 years now. Being aRead more

Sex Toy Review | Lovehoney Tease Me Bondage Tape

Lovehoney Tease Me Bondage Tape The Lovehoney Tease Me Bondage Tape, designed to stick to itself and stay stuck, is a welcomed addition to my kit. Believe it or not, I don’t always want to truss someone up in rope. The Basics Price: £5 Materials: PVC (Contains Latex) Shop: LoveHoney.co.uk Purchase here. Lovehoney Tease Me BondageRead more